You can easily sequester your personal stuff from your self hosted stuff. Most traffic going anywhere is encrypted as it should be. The main concern is lateral movement hence the network isolation.

Mail gang in da house.

Everyone should hoat mail. These corps started there for a reason. Take it all back.

That’s a you/network problem not a jellyfin problem. I run it exposed via a reverse proxy the sane way I expose Plex. I’m not using their bullshit proxy.

Which ones get he most play?

XMPP is nice but even with all of the quality of life extensions it definitely feels clunky. I tried switching to it recently from matrix and while matrix leaves a lot to be desired I found it was more useful in its current form than XMPP.

SWAG. SWAG. SWAG.

Apparently it is just a customized nginx set up.

Agreed. I don’t trust them at all and hate how much stuff uses them.